Little Feet, Big Steps, God’s Mountain

This is from Stefani’s journal on October 25, 2009. It recaps our story so well, I feel it worthy of posting here…

At some point yesterday, I wondered if I had climbed a mountain – my feet were tired, my muscles ached, I was tired from head to toe. Yes, I had climbed a mountain. Today, I have spent time remembering what led to the climb. Here are some snapshots from my memories…

It was some time in 1998 – we were returning from a church leadership conference, Bill Hybles was speaking – Ron asked that scary question, “Did God say anything to you tonight?” I wanted to answer, but I wanted to hear from him first, “Yeah, but what did he say to you?” He wouldn’t go, I wouldn’t go, finally we both said, “God told me that one of these days, we’re going to start one of those churches that becomes the ‘Hope of the World’.” Looking at each other with bewilderment, we had no idea what that meant or when that time would come. Together we shared ideas of what that would look like – a church beyond walls, in the community, uniting people in generosity, sharing the extravagant love of God.

Flash forward to October 2006 – we were standing on a mountain in the Eastern Sierra – a beautiful place, full of majesty and splendor, focusing on the awesome creation of God. I looked at Ron and said, “God’s about to do something different with us, isn’t He.” We both knew – we just had no idea what ‘it’ was. Standing on the top of that mountain we knew there was a bigger one ahead of us – one we would climb – one we would probably have no trail map for –one that would require big steps out of our little feet.

Flash forward to August 2007 – we were again on top of a hill somewhere in TN that we had never heard of, somewhere that we never thought we would be – getting ready to go through the ringer at the Church Planting Assessment Center. Could this be the time that God had forecast so many years ago? Were we ready for this mountain? A resounding yes – in the form of affirmation from so many, including those who head CPAC. Only one question remained, “where?”

Flash forward to January 2008 – a moving van makes its way south along the I-95 corridor from PA to Northern Virginia. A place not known, A people not familiar with, A mountain with no map, A job with no income…

Who knew that the next 20 months would involve so many big steps – in raising funds, in building relationships, in establishing credibility, in unleashing generosity. Who knew that time could move so quickly.

October 25, 2009 Restore Community Church held the Grand Opening Celebration for Sunday Morning Services. And yet, the Church began long before that. And while most people see Church as this Sunday Morning thing, Restore is so much more – lived out daily in the community, as one person invests in another, as generosity is extended, as the extravagant love of Jesus is shared. Something tells me that the biggest steps are yet to be taken.

The Canvas Revealed

Paint PalletThere comes a time in the pursuit of every dream that all that can be done has been done. A point in time that the outcome is pre-determined before it is realized. A point in time that the painted canvas is complete, but not yet revealed.

At this point, the outcome can no longer be controlled, manipulated, or improved. It will be what it will be. For the leader only a couple questions matter… “Was I obedient to God’s leadership? Did I fully and faithfully steward the time, money, resources, and people God provided to accomplish His vision?” Freedom comes through faithfulness. At this point, the outcome is determined by God. For the canvas was painted by God and His servant provided the paint.

In four days, the image of Jesus’ bride the church will be revealed. She will be beautiful. God formed her. And gave her life. God grows His church – not me. I have been obedient and faithful. But the outcome of my labor is not my responsibility, it is God’s. I now sit back, having done all I can do and wait in exciting anticipation for God to reveal the work of His hands. The canvas is painted in heaven and in a few days will be revealed on earth.

Restore’s Beginning

Family Picture b and w 100People are asking how Restore got started. Here is part of the story…

My family and I moved to Northern Virginia (NOVA) in January 2008. We took 6 months to determine to best community in NOVA for establishing a new non-profit organization and church. We we’re looking for one of the youngest family communities in NOVA, with balanced economic and multi-ethnic diversity.

We moved to Sterling in September of 2008 and began an intensive community needs assessment. Through this process, I personally interviewed and established relationships with over 50 influential leaders in Loudoun County and the Sterling area. These interviews were extremely informative in identifying the greatest assets and liabilities of the Sterling area. We also worked with teams of volunteers to run surveys in Sterling. From the community needs assessment, we determined that our best niche in the community was to start a non-profit to serve as a conduit of communication between other non-profits and NOVA residents who want to unleash their generosity. To read about our non-profit – Enrich NOVA::Generosity Can go to www.enrichnova.com. Enrich NOVA::Generosity Can established in February 2009 and it’s impact is continuing to expand.

In March 2009, I re-focused my attention on starting Restore Community Church out of the relationships I was establishing in the community through the non-profit. The reason I took this approach to starting a new church is because I deeply believe it is time for the church to leave the building and become actively involved in sharing God’s extravagant love in the community. To ensure that Restore is never defined by the religiosity that comes with Sunday morning church services, I started the church through serving the community and unleashing generosity to a community in need. Restore is a church that steps beyond shallow religion and spirituality to pursue authentic relationships with God and others. If we really love God, then we will love people, because God loves people. And this love will be expressed my meeting people’s needs in practical ways.

I guess it would be fair to say that I became the pastor of Restore the moment I began establishing relationships in Sterling and sharing with others God’s extravagant love.

Extreme Generosity

Restore is giving away several thousand dollars in pre-loaded Restore Community Church debit cards to people in the community on October 17th and 25th. The purpose of these cards is to inspire and empower you to unleash generosity on families who are in need. The cards are in the amounts of $20, $50, and $100.

When you receive one of these cards, 1) add whatever dollar amount you can to the gift you have been given, 2) identify a family in need, 3) meet their need by unleashing your generosity, 4) share your story.

Share your story at www.restoringcommunity.com .

In Restore, Generosity is a Way of Life. Be part of the story as you share God’s Extreme Generosity.

Thank You!

Thank You

Generosity and Success

Downpour Water Park

Downpour Water Park

Help is available to every Sterling family that needs help getting their kids back to school this year.

Sterling, VA – Through the collaborative efforts of Restore Community Church, Enrich NOVA::Generosity Can, Kids R First, and generous community members, every child in Sterling that comes from a family in need can receive necessary school supplies to return to school.

On August 23, Restore Community Church unleashed a downpour of generosity by renting out Downpour Water Park at Algonkian Regional Park and providing a FREE Family Day at the Water Park to the community. Over 1000 people and 267 families participated in this event. Each family gave one or more backpacks to help children get back to school. In all, 425 packs were collected. This overflow of generosity and love is changing children’s lives and changing the Sterling community.

It is time for the church to leave the building and actively share Jesus’ love in practical ways by meeting people’s needs in the community. And this is what Restore does.

In less than a year, Restore has distributed 932 pounds of food to area food pantries, served over a week of meals to over 100 under resourced families, moved a single mom from a hostile situation to a safe environment, helped a family start a new business, and provided $2500 of daily necessities to families coming out of homelessness.

On Sunday, October 25, Restore has its’ grand opening at the Countryside Regal Cinema in Sterling. In Restore Community Church, generosity is a way of life. People interested in learning more about Restore Community Church can visit the church’s website at www.restorenova.com.

FREE Family Day… at the Waterpark

We believe generosity should be a way of life! And we live it! Downpour pg1 250pix

Restore Community Church (www.restorenova.com) is sponsoring a FREE FAMILY ADMITTANCE to Downpour Water Park at Algonkian Regional Park with donation of one new back-to-school backback. The backpacks will be donated to Kids R First to help families in need get their kids back to school!

Family Fun Activities…
* Free Downpour Water Park!
* Free Miniature Golf!
* Free Moon Bounce!
* Free New iPhone Give-away! Register online now!

Sunday, August 23; 11am – 7pm
47001 Fairway Drive, Sterling, VA 20165
(off Cascades Pkwy. by Potomac River)
Park info & map: www.nvrpa.org/parks/downpour

Here is how it works:
1) Your family donates at least one backpack
2) Backpacks are donated to Kids R First
3) Kids in need get a boost returning to school
4) Your family gets a day at Downpour Water Park
5) …and you could win a FREE iPhone! Register online now…

Register for a FREE iPhone at www.restoringcommunity.com (must register for the iPhone between 8/6 – 8/23)

Join us for A GREAT DAY of summer FUN and GENEROSITY!

Invite your neighbors and friends to join you! 

In 6 Days…

In 6 days… Restore Community Church…

  • Distributed 932 pounds of food to area food pantries
  • Served a week of meals to over 100 under resourced families
  • Moved a single mom from a hostile situation to a safe environment
  • Provided $2500 of daily necessities to families coming out of homelessness
  • Helped a family start a new business
  • Increased generosity throughout Northern Virginia

Restore

      
         where generosity is a way of life

Missional Marries Attractional

Doug Foltz goes over goes over the top in articulating our conversation on missional verses attractional churches. Let’s start living a “both / and” model of church.

Here is Doug’s blog. It says it all.

I love all the chatter in the blog world about missional churches and attractional churches.  A good healthy debate is always fun.  My opinion is it takes both to reach different types of people.  But what would happen if a missional church and an attractional church came together and started having kids (planting churches).  I had a conversation with Ron Klabunde a couple of weeks ago that birthed this idea.

1.  Small groups would become house churches.  Small groups would become more than just home group bible studies.  They would evolve into missional communities.  These missional communities would live the Christian life together and would focus spreading the gospel of Christ by serving their neighbors and living their faith out loud where they live.  Missional church gatherings would be the core experience of the church rather than large group corporate worship on Sundays.

2.  There would still be large group worship on Sundays.  The attractional DNA would kick in to recognize that the best way to engage pre-Christians is through the Sunday morning worship experience.  This large group gathering would be a non-threatening place to bring your friends to church.  After all its a bit awkward to invite your pre-Christian friends to your home church.  Seems a little intimidating to culture at large.  Those who called the church home would come to serve on Sunday.  The target audience of the Sunday corporate gathering would be pre-Christians and those not yet connected to a missional community.  Thus as the church grows, it is completely feasible to be a church of 2000 connected in missional communities with only 200-300 in attendance at weekend services.  It would also be likely that once a month or so the entire church would gather for a large corporate gathering of all the believers where the focus of the service was on Christians.

3.  Less building and staff would be needed to run this church, thus allowing the church to unleash more people and money on serving community needs, planting more churches and worldwide missions.

I walked away from this conversation thinking that maybe missional and attractional churches should stop debate each other and begin starting churches together.  I could get really excited about that.  How about you?

10 Way to Create Margin

28-time-managementMark Batterson has published a great blog on how to create margin. Read below.

One of the quantum challenges leaders face is this: as the organizations they lead start experiencing organizational growth they stop experiencing personal growth. Why? Because of the demands of the organizational growth. They start leading the organization and stop leading themselves. And that is when the blessing turns into a curse. Growth will grind to a halt. In fact, it will probably implode. You lose spiritual margin. You lose intellectual margin. You lose creative margin. And you stop growing. No Margin = No Growth.

The key to continued organizational and personal growth boils down to this: margin. You need margin to think. You need margin to play. You need margin to laugh. You need margin to dream. You need margin to have impromptu conversations. You need margin to seize unanticipated opportunities. You need margin.

One of the primary responsibilities of leaders is creating margin. It almost seems selfish. But you are doing everybody you work with a disservice if you give them everything you’ve got. You need margin. And it starts with time management. If you don’t control your calendar, your calendar will control you.

Here are a ten ways to create margin:

1) Use all of your vacation days. You owe it to yourself and your family.
2) Protect your day off religiously.
3) Don’t schedule meetings on certain days or before certain hours.
4) Delegate more responsibility.
5) Only check email during designated times during the day.
6) Get up earlier in the morning.
7) Schedule meetings with God and yourself.
8) Turn off the TV.
9) Get out of your organizational context and go to a conference.
10) Hit the gym. You don’t have enough time or energy NOT to work out.

Have any ideas to add to the mix? How do you create margin?